October 20, 2024
We Need Everyone

Male hiker looking out to sea from coastal rocks

MACK WILBERG

Conductor

RYAN MURPHY

Conductor

BRIAN MATHIAS

Organist

DERRICK PORTER

The Spoken Word

SING PRAISE TO HIM

Music: from Bohemian Brethren’s Songbook

Text: Johann J. Schütz; trans. Frances Elizabeth Cox

Arrangement: Ryan Murphy

I WILL SING WITH THE SPIRIT

Music: John Rutter

Text: Based on 1 Corinthians 14:15

MY SHEPHERD WILL SUPPLY MY NEED (ORGAN SOLO)

Music: American folk hymn

Arrangement: Dale Wood

HEAR HIM

Music: Ryan Murphy Text: Wendy Randall

THE SPOKEN WORD

“We Need Everyone”

SING!

from Sesame Street Music and Text: Joe Raposo

Arrangement: Ryan Murphy

FOR ALL THE SAINTS

Music: Ralph Vaughan Williams

Text: William Walsham How

Arrangement: Mack Wilberg

The Spoken Word

We Need Everyone[1]

20 October 2024

By: Derrick Porter

We live in a society that often seems to value outgoing, adventurous personalities over others. In a variety of ways, our culture suggests that we need to be bold to be successful, talkative to be happy, even loud to be worth hearing. This message is so pervasive that those who are more introspective, private, and quiet can begin to feel ashamed of their personality traits. They may long to be the life of the party—not the one who sits in the corner, lost in thought. They might think they need to be the one with many friends—not the one who enjoys fewer but deeper relationships. The culture may lead them to think that it’s better to be the center of attention—not the one who is content to observe.

The truth is that much of this world’s most inspiring art, most important discoveries, most influential ideas, and most revolutionary inventions were the work of people who tended to be more quiet, who did not seek the spotlight.[2] In fact, it may be that the inclination to be quiet, deliberate, and contemplative is more likely to foster such achievements than a bold, aggressive approach.

By some estimates, approximately half of us are more introverted than extroverted.[3] And that feels about right. The world was not meant to consist of only one kind of person. Our lives are enriched by varieties of personalities and dispositions, likes and dislikes, strengths and weaknesses. We need thoughtful, cautious people just as much as we need daring risk-takers. We need introverts and extroverts and everything in between.

Most of us have a little of both in our natures anyway; traditional labels are too simplistic to truly define anyone. And our personality develops over time; nothing is forever fixed in place. When anyone neglects his or her talents, we all suffer. On the other hand, when everyone is encouraged to be authentic enough to develop their gifts and then selfless enough to share them, they unleash their potential, make meaningful contributions, and find contentment—and we’re all the better for it.

[1] Originally presented by Lloyd D. Newell on the Music & the Spoken Word broadcast, Nov. 16, 2014.

[2] See Susan Cain, Quiet: The Power of Introverts in a World That Can’t Stop Talking (2013), 5.

[3] See Cain, Quiet , 3–4.