Music
Conductors: Mack Wilberg and Ryan Murphy
Organist: Brian Mathias
Announcer: Derrick Porter
“Scatter Sunshine”
Music: Edwin O. Excell
Lyrics: Lanta Wilson Smith
Arrangement: Ryan Murphy
“I Will Follow God’s Plan”
Music and Lyrics: Vanja Y. Watkins
Arrangement: Nathan Hofheins
“Caricature of a Sunday School Song (“Jesus Loves Me”)”
Music: William B. Bradbury
Arrangement: Dale Wood
“How Bright Is the Day”
Music and Lyrics: American Folk Hymn
Arrangement: Mack Wilberg
“I Know That My Redeemer Lives”
Music: Lewis D. Edwards
Arrangement: Mack Wilberg
Organ Interlude
“Look to the Day”
Music and Lyrics: John Rutter
Arrangement: Arch Own
“Redeemer of Israel”
Music: Freeman Lewis
Lyrics: William W. Phelps
Arrngement: Mack Wilberg
The Spoken Word
The Need to Be Appreciated
September 22, 2024
Written By Lloyd Newell
Delivered By Derrick Porter
We all know that every person has basic needs: food, water, shelter. But we don’t often think of some less-visible needs. The philosopher and psychologist William James is credited with saying, “The deepest craving of human nature is the need to be appreciated.” And yet so many people go days, weeks, months, or even longer without ever hearing a word of thanks or getting any recognition for their good work.
Conveying appreciation costs so little, but it means so much. A little effort—a word or two, a note, a smile, a hug—can express how much we appreciate another person and give credit where credit is due. It can be surprising how profoundly such an act of appreciation can change people’s attitude about their work and effort and inspire them to do more. It’s hard to forget a genuine compliment or a sincere expression of appreciation and admiration. We treasure it always.
Unfortunately, noticing the good that others are doing does not always come naturally. So, the first step to helping others feel appreciated is simply to notice.
A woman who oversaw a large community event discovered that few people took the time to thank her or even acknowledge her hard and unpaid work. She resolved to have a more abundant heart and pay attention to the service of others. A man who worked for several years under supervisors who rarely acknowledged his work or appreciated his extra efforts determined to be different if he ever became a manager. Now he is the manager, and he continually looks for ways to recognize and thank people. A mom and dad learned early in parenting that they strengthen bonds with their children and positively motivate them when they say things like “I noticed how hard you worked on that” or “Thank you for being so kind today.” All these people have learned the value of creating a generous, positive, appreciative culture, and it works in an organization, in a home, and in the heart.
If it is true that humanity’s deepest need is the need to be appreciated, then perhaps it is equally important to show appreciation—to make a difference in someone’s life by expressing how much we appreciate a job well done.
Originally presented by Lloyd D. Newell on Music & the Spoken Word broadcast, September 10, 2017.